Straits Times Reflection
Term 3 Week 9
2E/NA
Home Section page B6
Call us, helplines urge troubled teens
1a) List two reasons why teens are reluctant to call helplines despite the promise of anonymity and professional help.
- Teens are reluctant to call helplines because they are not really comfortable talking to strangers. Talking to someone about our problems will be very wierd for us. Talking to friends or teachers about our problem is calm for us . Secondly , teenagers are stubborn . We will keep our problem to ourselves . They don't really like to share their prob;ems with others .
b) According to Ms Lily Chu, how does Touch Leadership and Mentoring prefer to help troubled teens?
Touch Leadership and Mentoring prefer to help teens and youths through more direct, effective, means, such as educational workshops in schools, face to face counselling and home visits.
2) Have you confided in your friends or family members about the problems you face in school/ life? Why or why not?
Yes. I would usually talk to my friends and my mother about my problems . They are really understanding . It is much more comfortable talking to them than talking to counsellors because we barely know the counsellors. My friends wold understand as they had encoutered the same thing i am going through. It is also common for teenagers to seek for their friends help when they face a problem. For my mother, she was a teenager once so , she would understand what i am going through .
Have you been betrayed by your friends before? If yes, how? (You may change the names of the people involved for privacy)
Yes, it was about trust . They think that we are like their maid . Doing this for , that for her but in the end , she forgets you just like that .